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A Son Lost to Suicide, a Father’s Mission: ‘We Loved Him Every Day, but It Wasn’t Enough’

A Son Lost to Suicide, a Father’s Mission: ‘We Loved Him Every Day, but It Wasn’t Enough’

What’s striking about Brad Hunstable’s final day with his son is how unremarkable it seemed when it began. It was April 17, a beautiful, sunny Friday in Aledo, Texas, a small town outside Fort Worth, one month after the pandemic had shut down the country. Hunstable and 12-year-old Hayden, a boy with an infectious smile who was only four days away from his 13th birthday, had just returned from fixing a well on their nearby property. Feeling the satisfaction of a job well done, Hunstable grabbed his son in a tight hug and gave him a kiss on the head. Then Hunstable went to his home office to take a call, and Hayden headed upstairs to his room. Less than half an hour later, Brad’s daughter Kinlee, then 8, ran up…

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AMAZON | Tom Clancy’s Without Remorse Michael B. Jordan takes on the big guns ACTION “Kelly wasn’t worried—at least not about the storm—but he wasn’t casual about things, either.” This is Tom Clancy’s description of Navy SEAL John Kelly (People’s Sexiest Man Michael B. Jordan) early on in the 1993 novel Without Remorse. By the end of this Amazon film, Kelly has been through hell and back—and possibly back again, if you’re keeping score—and been rewarded by the CIA with a new name (John Clark, purposefully bland) and mission. He’s also been established as a player in the Clancy universe. Not worried yet not casual, no matter the severity of the storm—that’s the key to Kelly, and to Jordan’s performance, which is equal parts adrenaline, cool patience and brute force. The part has…

Tina TURNER LA RAGE DE VIVRE

Tina TURNER LA RAGE DE VIVRE

Elle galvanisait les foules et avait surmonté des tragédies. La rayonnante chanteuse s’est éteinte chez elle en Suisse, à 83 ansAvec Ike, mentor et tortionnaire, elle apprend le métier… et l’indicible souffrance « Je l’idolâtrais, racontait-elle. C’est lui qui m’a fait démarrer. » Le musicien de génie commence par la rebaptiser. La jeune Anna Mae Bullock devient Tina Turner. En 1961, il lui fait enregistrer son premier single, « A Fool in Love », et l’épouse deux ans plus tard. Le début d’un triomphe artistique et d’un désastre intime. Le couple multiplie les titres à succès et les concerts ébouriffants. Mais en coulisses, comme sa mère avant elle, Tina est victime de coups, d’humiliations. Ike est accro à la coke, paranoïaque, et toujours armé. En 1976, après une énième raclée, la…

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CUTE COUPLES! NAOMI’S STREET STYLE New York City, April 8 Naomi Campbell stunned the streets of Times Square in the Michael Kors fashion show in a sparkling, long-sleeved navy gown and a matching trench coat. GREATNESS ON THE GREEN Augusta, Ga., April 11 Golf pro Hideki Matsuyama became the first male player from Japan to claim a major title when he won the 2021 Masters Tournament. ANDREA’S FATHER-DAUGHTER DUET AlUla, Saudi Arabia, April 8 Andrea Bocelli’s daughter Virginia, 9, joined him for a duet at the first-ever modern concert at the historic Al-Hijr Archaeological Site. HE WEARS SHORT SHORTS! West Hollywood, April 5 It must have been leg day: Milo Ventimiglia flaunted his impressive gams when he left his gym in shorts. LIKE MOTHER, LIKE DAUGHTER Madonna shared a rare selfie with daughter Lourdes Leon, 24, on April 11. “Like pieces of your heart…

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Le courrier des lecteurs

Le courrier des lecteurs

Ecrivez-nous: Auto Plus, votre actu, 40, avenue Aristide-Briand, 92220 Bagneux ou par mail à : courrier.autoplus@reworldmedia.com (en précisant votre ville). Puissance combinée des hybrides rechargeables Le compte n’est pas bon ! Votre comparatif entre les Kia Sportage et Peugeot 3008 hybrides (n° 1757) est fort intéressant, mais je suis perdu dans les puissances annoncées: les moteurs thermiques des deux modèles affichent la même puissance (180 ch), au contraire de leurs blocs électriques (110 ch pour le 3008, 91 pour le Sportage). Pourtant, Kia annonce 265 ch cumulés, contre 225 pour Peugeot. Comment expliquer des cumuls aussi différents? A. Béthune, Savigny-sur-Orge (91) Vincent Desmonts. Rassurez-vous, les calculettes des constructeurs ne sont pas défaillantes! En effet, dans le cas présent, les deux moteurs entraînent le même essieu. Additionner les puissances maxi de chacun n’a pas de sens car…

Bethenny Frankel: What I Know Now

Bethenny Frankel: What I Know Now

Bethenny Frankel has never been one to dial back her personality—and that’s just fine with her new fiancé, Paul Bernon. “He says there are no variations to me,” says Frankel, 50, of the 43-year-old producer, businessman and father of two. “He loves me for me. He knows what he’s taken on.” After all, Frankel’s bracing honesty and memorable one-liners made her a fan favorite on The Real Housewives of New York City more than a decade ago. After finalizing a drawn-out divorce in January from second husband Jason Hoppy, with whom she has 11-year-old daughter Bryn, the reality star-entrepreneur-philanthropist is back with a new show on HBO Max, The Big Shot with Bethenny, in which contestants compete to join the executive team at her multimillion-dollar Skinnygirl lifestyle company. “I know…

L’i4 FANTASTIQUE ?

L’i4 FANTASTIQUE ?

Il peut être tout reproché à BMW en matière d’électrification, sauf d’y aller sur la pointe des pieds. Dans le sillage d’un SUV iX dont le physique de monstre gentil ne peut laisser indifférent (voir L’AJ n°1 093), l’i4, à la silhouette plus consensuelle de berline, déboule d’emblée, dans sa version M50, avec 544 ch entre les roues. Une puissance qui interpelle, plus encore l’amateur de la marque qui fera le rapprochement avec la dernière génération en date du réputé duo M3/M4 dont le bon vieux moteur thermique “plafonne” à ce jour à 510 ch. Avec de telles références en tête, les attentes sont forcément élevées. Qu’à cela ne tienne, celle qui s’apparente au pendant 100 % électrique de l’imminente Série 4 GranCoupé se montre à la hauteur. Au moins sur…

Courteney Cox: ‘I’ve Always Stayed True to Myself’

Courteney Cox: ‘I’ve Always Stayed True to Myself’

It’s no surprise that Courteney Cox is hyperorganized. Much like her beloved Friends character, Monica, the actress, 57, is a self-described neat freak so good at cleaning out clutter, Marie Kondo would be impressed. Even during an interview from her home in L.A.—which she shares with Coco, 17, her daughter with ex-husband David Arquette—Cox pauses to give explicit instructions to movers about her player piano and makes sure it’s placed just right so she can take it off her to-do list. “As long as I know what I have to do tomorrow and write it down and feel like I’m organized, then I can relax,” she says. “Nothing makes me happier than a check by something.” This past year alone Cox has checked off a new movie (the fifth installment of the…

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MOVIE | Amsterdam Director David O. Russell’s rambunctious all-star outing COMEDY-DRAMA If space aliens had ever wanted to start a movie studio, they missed their chance by not beaming up the cast and crew of Amsterdam. It’s a solid chunk of Hollywood: Directed by David O. Russell (American Hustle), the film stars Christian Bale, John David Washington and Margot Robbie, supported by Robert De Niro, Chris Rock, Zoe Saldaña, Rami Malek, Anya Taylor-Joy and Taylor Swift. And more! Set in Manhattan in 1933, the film hums with eccentric humor—Mike Myers is a glass-eye specialist and bird-watcher—and at times it’s exhilarating. These brilliant performers seem to be having so much fun whirling around in a dense jumble of plot. Then again, you may begin to think the aliens were smart to ignore Amsterdam. We’ll…

J.Lo: ‘It’s a Beautiful Love Story’

J.Lo: ‘It’s a Beautiful Love Story’

Just the other night, Jennifer Lopez’s 13-year-old son Max slipped into bed with his mom for a snuggle and to raise something that had been on his mind. “How are you doing, Mommy?” he asked. “I’m good, baby. I just have a little cough,” responded Lopez, who’d been nursing a cold and figured he wanted reassurance she wasn’t that sick. “No, no, I mean how are you really doing? How are you feeling?” Max asked. Moved by his question—and savoring an unguarded moment with her increasingly independent teenager—Lopez answered from the heart: “Honestly, Max, I’ve never been better.” He reached over and touched her hand. “Me too,” he said, and before he headed back to his room, she told him, “I love you.” Expressions of love are nothing new in the…

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INSIDE NASHVILLE’S BIG NIGHT STARS ON-SET PRETTY LITTLE BABY Pretty Little Liars star Brant Daugherty and actress wife Kim welcomed their first child together, son Wilder David, on March 24, and they are already “obsessed” with him, Kim says. “It is such a magical feeling, knowing we created a life. We keep saying, ‘We made him!’” SAWEETIE TAKES THE STAGE Atlanta, April 17 Rapper Saweetie performed at the Triller Fight Club: Jake Paul vs. Ben Askren boxing match. CHRISTIAN’S NEW LOOK Sydney, April 18 Christian Bale showed off his newly shaved head during a run on the beach in Australia, where he’s filming Thor: Love and Thunder. AN X-FILES REUNION The X-Files stars Gillian Anderson and David Duchovny reunited in an April 18 selfie shared on Instagram. “Stella made a new friend today,” Anderson captioned the post, referring to her new…

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Can Exercise Make Your Skin Look Younger?

Though it sounds too good to be true, exercise not only keeps skin youthful, but also helps it de-age. As you work out, your muscles release active compounds—known as exerkines—to start the domino effect of your body’s response to exercise. Several years ago, researchers at McMaster University in Ontario pinpointed one exerkine protein in particular, IL-15, that stimulates skin cells’ power centers, or mitochondria. The pumped-up mitochondria in turn make skin cells perform better, whether they’re cranking out plumping collagen or triggering the cell turnover that renews your complexion. In other words, IL-15 makes skin cells’ mitochondria fitter and healthier, and that makes skin look and act younger. Best of all, this priceless IL-15 youth potion is free: All you have to do is move. THE MAGIC OF IL-15 The Canadian scientists…

Can Exercise Make Your Skin Look Younger?
Asus ROG Zephyrus G14: Blazing-Fast Gaming Machine

Asus ROG Zephyrus G14: Blazing-Fast Gaming Machine

When the Asus ROG Zephyrus G14 first launched last year, we praised it for combining a 14-inch display (then rare among gaming laptops) with Nvidia GeForce RTX 20-Series power and AMD Ryzen processing at a sweet price. The updated 2021 G14 uses the same design, but pumps things up to RTX 30-Series and newer Ryzen 5000 chips. Our test unit also includes a 1440p display and 32GB of memory, so the boosted price of our model isn’t as strong of a value as the original G14, but the entry-point configuration (which still features an RTX 3060) is an attractive proposition. Also, the market for 14-inch gaming laptops has expanded. Competing 14-inchers are now popping up from most of the usual suspects (the Razer Blade 14 is our top pick), making the…

THE ROUND-UP: PORTUGAL

CASA UM ALGARVE Paying homage to Portugal’s architectural heritage with its whitewashed simplicity, this once-unadorned shepherd’s house lies in the rural eastern Algarve, where swathes of wild borage and buttercups carpet the landscape in spring. Around it are groves of orange and carob trees, their long, black, bean-like pods an essential ingredient in the cakes of Portuguese kitchens, while an ancient, gnarled olive tree creates shade beside the swimming pool. Cleverly converted by Lisbon studio Atelier Rua, the original structure of the villa stands on the upper level of the dry garden where tiny irises and clumps of fragrant lavender edge the paths. An addition to one end forms the dining room while tumbling down the slope beneath it are contemporary white cubes housing four minimalist bedrooms, their showers opening onto…

THE ROUND-UP: PORTUGAL
A different approach to modeling the Santa Fe

A different approach to modeling the Santa Fe

When my wife, Jenny, and I decided in the fall of 2017 to sell our house of 47 years and move into a retirement community, that meant the Argentine Industrial District Ry. would be dismantled. At age 80, I had no plans to build another railroad. I decided to give away or sell everything. Some 700 freight cars, 25 locomotives, and numerous structures and all support materials were disposed of in about two months. We moved to the retirement community in January 2018. By then, I’d accepted the reality that I’d built my last railroad. But then something surprising occurred when in July, Jenny asked me whether I thought we could find a house in Prairie Village, as she missed living in our own home. We began looking, and to our…

PARTY OF ONE

IT BEGAN WITH A THEATRE TRIP TO SEE Seven Methods of Killing Kylie Jenner at the Royal Court Theatre in London. I was working my way through a list I’d made a year earlier, in the midst of the pandemic and my father’s deteriorating health, called ‘All the Things I Want to Do For Myself But Am Too Scared to Do’. The experience of seeing a play on my own was top of the list and, as I headed towards my seat on the first row of the balcony, I turned to the strangers on either side of me, to see if anyone was giving me weird stares. Anxious thoughts began running through my mind: Who would I speak to in the interval? What shall I do if I got…

PARTY OF ONE
How to Build Your Network

How to Build Your Network

IF YOU WERE to ask your colleagues, “Who was Paul Revere?” most would probably know the answer. He was, after all, immortalized in the Longfellow poem that begins, “Listen, my children, and you shall hear of the midnight ride of Paul Revere.” Yet how many of your colleagues, students of American history aside, would be familiar with William Dawes? Both men rode on horseback from Boston on the night of April 18, 1775. Both sounded the alarm that the Revolutionary War had begun. Dawes rode south while Revere rode north, but the towns they traveled through were demographically similar. Both men came from the same social class and had similar educational backgrounds. But only Revere raised a militia, and only Revere’s name became famous. What accounts for the difference? In…

13. How to Say No to Making an Introduction

13. How to Say No to Making an Introduction

LAST WEEK I wrote about how to make appropriate introductions on behalf of friends and colleagues—a topic that is often challenging. The flip side can be even worse. How do you decline to make an introduction on behalf of someone else without sounding like a jerk? The truth is, you should never make an introduction you don’t feel comfortable making. If you can’t vouch for someone’s qualifications or aren’t confident that the introduction makes sense, than you owe it to all parties not to move forward—it’s never a good idea to waste other people’s time or your own political capital. If you can’t in good conscience move forward with an introduction, here’s what you should do instead: • Be transparent about why you’re declining the request. • Provide a consolation prize. • Offer to…

2. The Best Way to Network in a New Job

To cultivate allies, work to pull people into your network rather than push your way into theirs. ANYONE WHO HOPES to hit the ground running in a new organization must first cultivate allies—a network of people who can provide the information, resources, and support needed to succeed. But few onboarding programs offer concrete advice on how to build those all-important connections. Our research over the past decade shows that replicating the network of an established employee in a strong culture typically takes three to five years. But recently we began to wonder if there was a way to accelerate that process. Could we develop a better blueprint for newcomer networking? We started by tracking people joining companies with employee bases ranging from a few hundred to more than 40,000 people and pairing their…

2. The Best Way to Network in a New Job
Can You Handle Failure?

Can You Handle Failure?

IN HIS BRILLIANT 1950 film, Rashomon, the Japanese director Akira Kurosawa depicts the story of a rape and murder four times, from the perspectives of four characters. The message is clear: Different people can see the same events in dramatically different ways. In the workplace this phenomenon is particularly evident when it comes to underperformance and failure. An outcome that an employee regards as satisfactory may be seen by his boss as entirely unacceptable. When a project is an unequivocal flop, colleagues disagree over the reasons why. These reactions, and their effect on workplace relationships, often become more problematic than the original event. As a result, how people respond to negative feedback is of great importance to managers and organizations and is a major determinant of career success. Consider the case of…

ABGESCHIRMT VOM ALLTAG

Ein Morgenspaziergang im Olivenhain. Ein Sprung ins blaue Wasser des Pools. Den ganzen Tag barfuß laufen und abends mit einem Glas Primitivo den Grillen lauschen. Endlich ausatmen. Im Grunde ist jeder Tag hier das genaue Gegenteil von Costantino Affusos Leben in Mailand. Zu Hause führt der Architekt mit seinem Partner Paolo Badesco ein Interiordesign-Büro und den Conceptstore Raw Milano für ausgesuchte Antiquitäten. Die beiden leben und lieben den schnellen Takt der Großstadt, gemeinsam statten sie Boutiquen und Apartments in der Modemetropole aus. Ihr Markenzeichen: sinnliche Kompositionen wie aus einer anderen Zeit. Ihr Ferienanwesen zwischen Bari und Brindisi gehörte zu ihren anspruchsvollsten Projekten der letzten Jahre. „Von außen sehen Trulli geräumig aus“, gibt Costantino zu. „Aber die zwei Meter dicken Wände waren schon eine Herausforderung.“ Ursprünglich sollte das Innere der Natursteinhäuschen Hitze…

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Hausbesuch

ZUR PERSON Barbara Panizza nutzt ihr Haus auch als Showroom. „Ein Gebäude steht nie für sich allein“, sagt die Interior-Designerin. „Es sollte die Geschichte der Bewohner zeigen.“ Ihr Mann Danilo Incerti und die Kinder Rocco (11) und Caterina (9) sind längst daran gewöhnt, dass Kunden hier Möbel, Materialien und Farben in gelebter Umgebung präsentiert werden. studiopianobi.it »ICH HABE DAS HAUS BIS INS DETAIL GEPLANT. DARAUF BIN ICH STOLZ«BARBARA PANIZZA»AM SCHWIERIGSTEN WAR, AUF GROSSEM RAUM PRIVATSPHÄRE ZU SCHAFFEN«BARBARA PANIZZA Am liebsten würde Barbara Panizza ihr Wohnzimmer täglich verändern. „Die großen Möbel dürfen bleiben“, sagt sie. „Aber ich stelle ständig Pflanzen, Leuchten und Accessoires um oder lege die Teppiche anders. Das gibt dem Raum sofort einen neuen Look.“ Ursprünglich hatten Barbara und ihr Mann Danilo Incerti von einem Altbau geträumt, den sie behutsam renovieren konnten.…

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BEYOND THE BORDER, BEYOND THE OBVIOUS

BEYOND THE BORDER, BEYOND THE OBVIOUS

A FEW YEARS AGO, I was invited to spend the evening with a gallery owner in Los Cabos, on Mexico’s Baja Peninsula. I was on vacation, and up until that point I had been doing what most visitors to Los Cabos do: I took a whale-watching tour, tried a few spa treatments, and soaked up the sun on the beach. But soon I was ready for something different. I met Patricia Mendoza at her namesake gallery, which features work by contemporary Mexican artists; together, we set off through the cobblestoned streets of San José del Cabo’s Gallery District. Mendoza introduced me to artists like Ivan Guaderrama, who explained how his colorful pieces produce sounds when touched, and Enrique Bascón, whose paintings examine Mexican society and politics with humor. Along the way,…

A FEAST FOR THE EYES

A FEAST FOR THE EYES

A GLOBETROTTER’S GUIDE TO THE LATEST IN TRAVEL IF YOU’RE SMART, you’ll arrive at the new Cheval Blanc hotel from the Left Bank, crossing the Pont Neuf with Notre Dame to your right and the sweep of the Seine to your left. Not even marching over the cobblestones up to Versailles feels quite so grand. The Cheval Blanc is the newest five-star hotel in Paris, but like the Pont Neuf itself, a lot of old is hidden behind the word new. Even the modern-looking glass façade of the building goes back almost a hundred years. Henri Sauvage designed it for the Samaritaine department store in 1928, dragging Paris away from the trippy curlicues of Art Nouveau toward the sober straight lines of Art Deco. The whole building was closed for structural repairs…

BACK IN TIME FOR DÎNER

BACK IN TIME FOR DÎNER

Passionate about cooking and the art of entertaining, Jacqueline and Philippe Irrmann are known for their 18th-century-themed dinner parties in Paris, which they refer to as grands couverts, a term used to describe royal banquets. Somewhere between a theatrical production and a feast for the senses, these dinners are a shared folly. The couple live in the Sentier neighbourhood in central Paris, home at various times to the likes of Madame de Pompadour (Jeanne Antoinette Poisson, as she was known at her time of residence), and Madame Vigée Le Brun, who used to host antiquity-themed costume parties while half draped over a divan. Located on the fourth floor of a typical 19th-century building, their apartment comprises four low-ceilinged rooms, entirely transformed by the architect Michel Pinet and the specialist decorators and restorers…

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Rose-Marie Swift Founder of RMS Beauty, Savannah, Georgia A big career in beauty was never part of Swift’s plan; she just wanted to buy a microphone for her rock band. To pay for it, she worked in burlesque clubs in Vancouver, British Columbia, painting the faces of the dancers. She learned she had a talent for it, and after filling in on a local magazine shoot, the accidental makeup artist started trotting the globe for Louis Vuitton and Victoria’s Secret ad campaigns, and Vogue and W fashion features. Along the way, a series of ailments—hair and memory loss, anxiety, and insomnia—slowed her way down, so she detoxed her life of potentially harmful chemicals, eating mostly raw, organic foods, and in 2005 began mixing her own natural makeup. Models loved her formulas, and…

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MAGAZIN

AVOCADO GRÜN WÄHLEN Leider ist unsere Superfrucht ein Sensibelchen: Übrig gebliebene Hälften werden im Nu gnadenlos braun. Hilfe naht mit den „Food Huggers“ aus BPA-freiem Silikon, die sie länger frisch halten. 2er-Set, ca. 15 Euro, über bloomling.de SOMEWHERE OVER THE RAINBOW Der Beweis, dass der Regenbogen erwachsen wird, ist dieses Geschirr. TELLER von The Giftcompany, ca. 6 Euro, über juhudu.de BECHER von Commune Pottery, ca. 12 Euro, über anthropologie.com MACH MAL FIX Dieser Flammkuchen ist ein herzhaft-süßer Genuss-Turbo WIR SIND FEUER UND FLAMME für diesen Belag: Kürbis und Feige bekommen würzige Aroma-Verstärkung von Rosmarin und roter Zwiebel. Der Teig ist von Tante Fanny (tantefanny.at) REZEPT FLAMMKUCHEN MIT KÜRBIS UND FEIGEN ZUTATEN: 1 PKG. TANTE FANNY FRISCHER FLAMMKUCHENTEIG 260 G; 125 G CRÈME FRAÎCHE; ½ KLEINE ROTE ZWIEBEL, GESCHÄLT, HALBIERT, IN FEINE SCHEIBEN GESCHNITTEN; 80 G HOKKAIDO-KÜRBIS, ENTKERNT, IN FEINE SCHEIBEN GESCHNITTEN; 1…

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EINMAL SEELE REPARIEREN, BITTE

EINMAL SEELE REPARIEREN, BITTE

Meine erste Therapeutin, nennen wir sie Frau Böll, war eigentlich noch gar keine. Sie befand sich in ihrer Ausbildung und arbeitete in der psychologischen Studienberatung der Universität Mainz. Zu ihr ging ich erstmals nach der Entlassung aus der Schmerzklinik, in der ich wegen meiner Migräne behandelt worden war. Frau Böll arbeitete verhaltenstherapeutisch. In ihrem Raum standen ein Regal, aus dem sie oft ein Buch zog, um mir ein paar Seiten zu kopieren, daneben ein Clipboard. Auf das malten wir Tortendiagramme zu meiner Belastungssituation und zeichneten die einzelnen Faktoren und ihre Prozentwerte ein (Uni 30 Prozent, Migräne 20 Prozent, neue Mitbewohnerin 7 Prozent). Ich bekam Hausaufgaben, musste bis zur folgenden Woche ein bestimmtes Buch lesen oder Arbeitsblätter ausfüllen, und wir erstellten Lernpläne, anhand deren ich mich durch die letzte Phase meines Studiums…

GIBT’S DOCH ALLES UM DIE ECKE

Eigentlich wollte ich nur ein Brot kaufen. Dinkel mit Mohn, außen knusprig und innen weich und fluffig – mein Lieblingsbrot. Das gibt es nur bei Jutta. Ihr gehört ein kleiner Bioladen etwa zehn Minuten von meinem Haus entfernt. Genau wie mein Wohnort Bargteheide ist er nicht besonders groß, trotzdem verkauft sie von veganer Schokocreme über frische Tomaten vom Bauern aus dem Nachbardorf und eben meinem Lieblingsbrot (fast) alles, was ich brauche. Aber vor allem schenkt mir Jutta immer ein Lächeln, wenn ich zur Tür reinkomme. Sie sieht sofort, ob ich neben dem Einkauf auch noch eine Tasse Cappuccino brauche. Heute ist so ein Tag. Draußen ist es nass und grau, was in etwa auch meiner Laune entspricht. Doch als ich mich mit meinem warmen Kaffee in der Hand auf einem…

GIBT’S DOCH ALLES UM DIE ECKE

WO IST EIGENTLICH DIE LEICHTIGKEIT GEBLIEBEN?

DIE SEHNSUCHTNACH DIESEM LOCKEREN SELBST, DAS KICHERN UND SPRÜHEN KANN, DAS DEM PESSIMISTISCHEN BIEST DIE ZUNGE HERAUSSTRECKT, IST GIGANTISCH „FREUDE“ STEHT AUF DEM BUCHCOVER und darunter: „Über die Entdeckung der Leichtigkeit“. Ich stehe in der Buchhandlung, ein seltsames Gefühl keimt auf. Ich nehme das Buch und laufe schnell zur Kasse, damit es nicht weggeht. Als würde mich allein das kleine Wort „leicht“ in einer altmodischen Zirkusshow über dem Boden schweben lassen – bunte Farben in der Freiluft-Arena, viel Gelächter und ich in einem schimmernden Showdress, Kopf triumphierend in den Nacken, die Mähne luftig wippend. In Wahrheit fühlen sich meine Füße an wie mit Gusseisen an den Boden geschmiedet, mein Kopf hängt, die Schultern auch, die Haare: schlapp. Mein Gehirn lässt seit – ja, seit wann eigentlich? – täglich wattedicken „brain fog“ darin aufziehen,…

WO IST EIGENTLICH DIE LEICHTIGKEIT GEBLIEBEN?
VEGAN ROCK YOU

VEGAN ROCK YOU

SPICY ASIA COLESLAW MIT TAMARITOFU UND EDAMAME 4–6 Personen ZUTATEN: 150 g TK-Edamame, geschält, 1 TL Kokosöl, 200 g Tofu Natur, in Würfel geschnitten, 1 Handvoll unbehandelte Erdnüsse oder Cashewkerne, ½ frische Chili, gehackt, 500–600 g Rotkohl, Weißkohl oder Spitzkohl, geraspelt oder in sehr dünne Streifen geschnitten, 3 große Möhren, geraspelt, 1½ EL Sesamöl, geröstet, 2 TL Apfelessig, 1 TL Ahornsirup, Saft 1 Limette oder ½ Zitrone, 1½–2 EL Tamari, je 1 EL schwarze und weiße Sesamsamen, Salz bei Bedarf; optional: 1 Handvoll Röstzwiebeln ZUBEREITUNG: Die tiefgekühlte Edamame in einer Schüssel mit heißem Wasser übergießen und beiseitestellen. Das Kokosöl in einer Pfanne erhitzen und die Tofuwürfel, Cashewkerne und Chili circa 10 Minuten anbraten. Vorsicht, heißes Öl und Chili wirken in der Wohnung oft wie Pfefferspray, wenn die Pfanne zu heiß ist! Währenddessen den Kohl und…

NACKT

Morgens legt sich Sanja Salonen gern ein Weilchen in den Vorgarten. Nackt. Zum Erden, im wahrsten Sinne des Wortes. Kontakt aufnehmen mit dem Boden, der sie trägt, mit ihrem Körper, der Haut. Und das Gefühl genießen, ein Teil der Natur zu sein. „Nackt“, sagt Salonen, Expertin für energetische Kommunikation, „ist die Wahrheit. Authentisch.“ Bei Seminaren hilft sie Menschen, sich in diesem Zustand wieder „mit ihrer Urkraft, ihren Wurzeln zu verbinden“. Nackt zu sein heißt für sie auch, sich selbst und die eigene Rolle in dieser Welt zu finden, sich zu zeigen, wie man ist. Wenn das ohne Klamotten am Leib leichter fällt – warum nicht? Und wenn die Außentemperatur für die Kontaktaufnahme stimmt? Herrlich. Sofort erinnere ich mich an das Glück beim Nacktbaden, das Wasser am ganzen Körper zu spüren. Aber…

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Houston, We Have a PROBLEM

Houston, We Have a PROBLEM

Hours before the Knicks’ biggest game in a generation, a do-or-die matchup that would either make them the 1994 NBA champions or relegate them to being a colorful footnote in hoops history, Pat Riley made a comment that still rings in the ears of one of his closest friends all these years later. Riley and Dick Butera were standing together inside the team’s Houston hotel, waiting for an elevator so they could head to the arena for Game 7 between the Knicks and Rockets in the NBA Finals. It was then that Riley heartily grabbed the real estate developer by the shoulder. “Well, old buddy: I know at least three people are gonna show up tonight. You, me and John,” Riley said, referring to shooting guard John Starks. At the time, Riley’s confidence…

Jennifer Lopez & Alex Rodriguez: Why They Couldn’t Make It Work

Just a month after putting on a united front with Alex Rodriguez following a swirl of breakup rumors, Jennifer Lopez is officially moving on. The superstar and the baseball player turned entrepreneur released a joint statement on April 15 announcing the end of their engagement—“We have realized we are better as friends … [and] wish the best for each other and one another’s children,” said the exes—but multiple sources confirm it was Lopez, 51, who ultimately broke up with Rodriguez, 45. “She insisted on it. There are too many issues that are unresolved,” says a friend of Lopez, who’s been filming her upcoming comedy Shotgun Wedding in the Dominican Republic over the past few months. In the end, sources say, Lopez could no longer fully trust Rodriguez, who flew to…

Jennifer Lopez & Alex Rodriguez: Why They Couldn’t Make It Work
King Charles’ Coronation: A Lifetime in the Making

King Charles’ Coronation: A Lifetime in the Making

Through a steady London rain on the morning of May 6, the pomp and ceremony of King Charles III’s coronation began with a ride in the Diamond Jubilee State coach. The carriage, first used in 2014 to commemorate the 60th anniversary of the accession of his late mother, Queen Elizabeth II, departed from Buckingham Palace at 10:20 a.m. Escorted by more than 150 members of the British armed forces and cheered on by thousands of damp but decidedly enthusiastic well-wishers, the enclosed horse-drawn coach rolled its way to Westminster Abbey. For Charles, 74, accompanied by his wife of 18 years, Queen Camilla, 75, the ride followed a carefully charted course, winding past landmarks like Trafalgar Square, the Palace of Westminster and Big Ben. At only 1.4 miles, the King’s procession…

MICHEL ONFRAY & FRÉDÉRIC BEIGBEDER LES LIBRES PENSEURS

MICHEL ONFRAY & FRÉDÉRIC BEIGBEDER LES LIBRES PENSEURS

Deux écrivains très populaires en France connaissent un immense succès avec leurs derniers ouvrages. Michel Onfray défend « Anima », un essai qui explore la condition humaine et le post-humanisme, de la grotte de Lascaux à Elon Musk. De son côté, Frédéric Beigbeder publie « Confessions d’un hétérosexuel légèrement dépassé », autoportrait d’un homme qui hésite à admettre son sentiment de décalage. Ces deux écrivains ont récemment été confrontés à des menaces à la suite de propos tenus pour l’un dans un livre, pour l’autre dans sa revue. Frédéric Beigbeder a été victime d’une campagne de haine, suivie de collages sur la devanture d’une librairie qui avait choisi d’organiser un débat. Ce débat a été interrompu par un groupe de jeunes filles. Quant à Michel Onfray, en décembre dernier il…

The Queen’s Trying Times

The Queen’s Trying Times

With a fire crackling in the hearth and photos of many of her 12 great-grandchildren nearby, Queen Elizabeth stood in Windsor Castle’s Oak Room on Feb. 16 to do her job—but on this day the 95-year-old was less sure-footed than usual. “I’m here,” she told outgoing rear admiral James Macleod and his replacement, Major General Eldon Millar, beckoning as they entered the room. “As you can see, I can’t move,” she said self-deprecatingly, holding the cane she began using in October. But despite her discomfort, she carried on as always. “What was striking is that not only was she indefatigably going about her duties as she would be expected to, but that she acknowledged that she couldn’t move,” says her biographer Sally Bedell Smith. “We’re so accustomed to seeing her…

Gad Elmaleh et l’étrange communauté des Béatitudes

Un demi-million de spectateurs en salles, une trentaine d’articles de presse, des invitations à la radio, à la télévision : sorti mi-novembre au cinéma, le film Reste un peu, écrit et réalisé par Gad Elmaleh, connaît un joli succès commercial. Prouesse que ce récit intime, s’interrogeant sur la définition du judaïsme et la promesse du christianisme, tissé par l’humoriste moins cérébral dans le rôle du travesti de Chouchou ou celui du flambeur de Coco, tant cette fois, le propos s’élève : l’histoire drolatique donc d’un quinquagénaire de retour des Etats-Unis, dont la mère, pétulante juive pratiquante, découvre dans la valise une statuette de Notre-Dame de Lourdes. En secret, il chemine vers le baptême, conversion vécue comme une déflagration par sa famille séfarade. Le scénario ne fait pas mystère de sa…

Gad Elmaleh et l’étrange communauté des Béatitudes

Dwyane Wade & Gabrielle Union: Dream Team

Less than 24 hours before their People photo shoot, Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade were in the midst of something decidedly less glamorous: potty training Kaavia, their 2-year-old daughter. “It’s been a challenge,” Union, 48, says with a laugh. “She’s very strong-willed!” You could say that Kaavia, the inspiration for her parents’ new children’s book Shady Baby, inherited that trait from Union and Wade, a formidable couple who have risen to the pinnacle of their careers (he as a three-time NBA champ, she onscreen in hits from Bring It On to TV’s Being Mary Jane). Married since 2014, they’ve also become leading forces for change, blending their personal and professional worlds to support causes close to their hearts. They partnered with the nonprofit Vaccinate Your Family and Merck on a “Don’t…

Dwyane Wade & Gabrielle Union: Dream Team

StarTracks

J-LAW GETS BACK IN THE SPOTLIGHT New York City, Dec. 5 Jennifer Lawrence (who is expecting her first baby with husband Cooke Maroney) dressed up her growing bump in a Dior gown at the premiere of her new film Don’t Look Up, where she posed with her costars Leonardo DiCaprio and (inset) Meryl Streep, Jonah Hill and director Adam McKay (far right). CARRIE PUTS ON A SHOW Las Vegas, Dec. 1 Carrie Underwood launched her Reflection Las Vegas residency at Resorts World Theatre, where she treated fans to a medley of her biggest hits and plenty of costume changes. RYAN & BLAKE’S ROMANTIC STROLL New York City, Dec. 2 Ryan Reynolds and wife Blake Lively walked arm in arm during a casual outing in downtown Manhattan. JASON & MARISKA SAY CHEESE New York City, Nov. 30 Jason Biggs snapped a selfie…

StarTracks

What Really Happened to Bob Saget?

When Bob Saget checked into room 962 at the Ritz-Carlton Orlando Grande Lakes on Jan. 7, the 65-year-old comedian seemed to have the vitality of a man half his age. “He was cracking jokes, waving to people in the lobby,” says a hotel employee. “When people asked for selfies, he would run over and grab their phones to take the pictures with them, joking the whole time. He was a ball of happy, positive energy.” Rising early the following morning, the Full House actor ordered scrambled eggs, croissants and coffee from room service while preparing for his second of two sold-out shows in Florida—this one at the Ponte Vedra Concert Hall outside Jacksonville, some 160 miles from his hotel—that evening. “He didn’t slack,” says his close friend and tourmate Mike…

What Really Happened to Bob Saget?

Le film de Maïwenn est un scandale esthétique

Le film de Maïwenn, Jeanne du Barry, a été accueilli par des critiques modérément favorables, pour dire le moins. On a peu apprécié que la réalisatrice semble, à travers la Du Barry, conter son histoire personnelle d’ascension sociale par la fréquentation des puissants. Ce narcissisme a déplu. D’autres ont grincé des dents en faisant le rapprochement entre l’apologie de cette vie de favorite et les récents mouvements féministes (#MeToo) dénonçant le droit de cuissage encore à l’oeuvre dans bien des milieux. D’autres encore se sont émus que l’on confie à Johnny Depp, aux prises avec la justice pour des faits de maltraitance conjugale, le rôle principal, et même un rôle tout court. Bref, ce film avait tout pour exaspérer une certaine sensibilité contemporaine qui cherche en tout le miroir de…

Le film de Maïwenn est un scandale esthétique

Zoë Kravitz & Robert Pattinson: Super Chemistry

Although Zoë Kravitz and Robert Pattinson had known each other casually for years, they forged a superpowered bond over their intense 154-day shoot making The Batman (out March 4). The latest stars to bring Batman and Catwoman to the big screen, Twilight and Tenet alum Pattinson, 35, and Big Little Lies actress Kravitz, 33, have an easy, affectionate rapport—with both sometimes dropping into the low, throaty “Batman voice” for comedic effect. “She’s incredibly professional,” he says. “He’s so pretty!” she jokes. They chatted about stepping into the coveted costumes, enduring night shoots and embracing their love for the Jackass franchise. When did you first meet, and what were your impressions? ZOË KRAVITZ I camera-tested for a film Rob did called Remember Me a long time ago [in 2010]. I forgot that even…

Zoë Kravitz & Robert Pattinson: Super Chemistry

The Mysterious Death of Brittany Murphy: A Hollywood Tragedy

On a quiet morning just five days before Christmas 2009, Brittany Murphy put on her favorite pink bathrobe, gave her husband, Simon Monjack, a kiss and went into the bathroom. Although the 32-year-old actress had been suffering from laryngitis and flu-like symptoms for several weeks, no one close to her apparently understood just how much danger she was in. At 8 a.m. Murphy’s mother, Sharon, who was living with them, walked in and found her daughter unresponsive on the bathroom floor. She called 911 while screaming, “Brittany, please come back.” Monjack, 40, put her in a cold shower and then performed CPR. But it was too late. The star was rushed to L.A.’s Cedars-Sinai Hospital and shortly after pronounced dead. Almost 12 years later, mysteries still linger surrounding Murphy’s shocking death—and Monjack’s…

The Mysterious Death of Brittany Murphy: A Hollywood Tragedy

Model Citizen

Liya Kebede Founder and creative director of Lemlem, model, and actress New York City and Paris In a Lemlem dress, you can’t help but float through summer. Whisper-light and awash in happy, sun-drenched colors, each one is hand-woven on wooden looms by African artisans, following centuries-old traditions. The brand’s founder is Ethiopian model and maternal-health advocate Liya Kebede, who rose to fame in the early aughts as the face of Tom Ford’s Gucci and the first Black spokesmodel for Estée Lauder. On a trip to her hometown of Addis Ababa around that time, she noticed a distressing drop in the demand for traditional garments, and got busy. “Weaving is a craft that has been passed through generations and holds deep cultural significance,” says Kebede, who set her mind to preserving the art,…

Model Citizen
Skin-Care Ingredients 101

Skin-Care Ingredients 101

THE HYDRATORS Niacinamide As far as active ingredients go, niacinamide, a derivative of vitamin B3, is seen as more of a workhorse than a hero. However, recent times have catapulted niacinamide’s popularity thanks to its ability to moisturize, support the skin barrier, soothe, and help treat hyperpigmentation, acne, and wrinkles “without causing irritation,” says Caroline Robinson, M.D., a dermatologist in Chicago. In other words, it can do the same heavy lifting that other actives do without the redness or dryness they might cause. In fact, it makes skin calmer as it gets firmer and smoother. “Niacinamide helps increase the production of ceramides that keep our skin barrier strong and hydrated,” Dr. Robinson says. Then it goes to work offering a slew of side benefits. “That’s because niacinamide is both an antioxidant and…

FIRST LOOK

SOUTH-EAST OUT OF PALMA ON THE NEWEST section of the Ma-19 motorway, the countryside flattens out into a minimalist landscape of fig and meandering dry-stone walls. There’s a dazzle in the sky; the warm air smells of dust and salt. Up ahead lies a huddle of houses crowned by a solid, four-square church, all in the same sandy-coloured, pink-tinged local rock. It might be just over half an hour out of town, but this feels like a world away. In the old days nobody ever lingered in Santanyí. There was no ‘there’ there, as Gertrude Stein said of Oakland, California – but there was also nowhere to stay. Only two reasons might take you to this rural town of 2,000 souls in one of Mallorca’s least-traversed and least-developed corners: the bustling…

FIRST LOOK

Meatless Mojo

Cauliflower-and-Lentil Stew With Onion Relish 1 red onion, finely chopped (about 1¼ cups) and divided3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, plus more for drizzling2 tablespoons minced fresh ginger (from a 2-inch piece)Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper1 teaspoon garam masala or berbere spice blend1 cup red lentils, rinsed and picked through4 cups cauliflower florets, cut into bite-size pieces (from ½ head)1 can (14.5 ounces) diced fire-roasted tomatoes3 cups packed baby kale½ teaspoon finely grated lime zest, plus 3 tablespoons fresh juice 1. Place ½ cup onion in a small bowl of ice water. Heat oil in a pot over medium-high; add remaining onion and ginger and season with salt and pepper. Cook, stirring occasionally, until onion begins to brown, 6 to 7 minutes. Add garam masala; cook, stirring, until fragrant, 1 to 2…

Meatless Mojo
SECOND HAND NEWS

SECOND HAND NEWS

ALICE WIGNALL EBAY ADDICT I CANNOT DENY THAT SUSTAINABILITY was part of why I started shopping second-hand. Even the most determined head-in-sander can’t avoid the statistics on the fashion industry’s contribution to carbon emissions, not to mention the water-intensive processes required for clothing production. But it wasn’t just that. Regular shopping had ceased to hold the appeal it once had. I work in central London: there are multiple outlets of every major high-street brand within walking distance of my office, and while lunchtime browsing I started to notice a feeling of slight vertigo while staring at the rails upon rails of clothes, knowing that not only would every one be replenished in a month, but that the groaning shelves were replicated in another branch five minutes away – and the same in…

11. The Power of Your Network Is the “Ask”

11. The Power of Your Network Is the “Ask”

ONE OF THE biggest assets in anyone’s life is a generous network. It is a gift that grows simply by sharing it. Think of it as the Law of Accelerating Returns—the more you share your network, the more people share it in return and the more the rate of sharing accelerates. For me, my network has literally and figuratively been a source of survival. For most of us, networks have played a critical role in our lives, whether or not we realize it. I asked executive and super-networker Vala Afshar if he thought any common traits or patterns could be “taught” or encouraged for networking. We discovered that the people we know who are great connectors are hardworking, humble, and quietly confident that connecting the people they introduce will result in…

2. How to Email Someone You Haven’t Talked to in Forever

2. How to Email Someone You Haven’t Talked to in Forever

AT SOME POINT in our careers, we find ourselves in need of help from others—whether it’s to make a direct connection to a hiring manager, gather information on a prospective client company, or learn about a new industry quickly. However, over the years, we often lose touch with people in our network as work, family, and other demands fill our limited time. As if asking for help wasn’t hard enough, what do you do when you need assistance from someone you haven’t spoken to in over a decade? As an executive coach, I have seen clients in this situation many times. Building and nurturing our personal and professional networks is essential for career success. Research shows that robust networks lead to better opportunities, faster advancement, and greater status, among other benefits.…

5. How to Figure Out How Much Influence You Have at Work

5. How to Figure Out How Much Influence You Have at Work

A BANKER IN Southeast Asia wanted to allow employees of a car rental agency to buy used cars from the employer. But not a single business unit was able to put together that product. Different units were stopped by either the existing product portfolio, the underlying risk, or regulatory guidelines. One of the banker’s colleagues, however, was able to facilitate valuable introductions across the company. That led to the solution being codesigned and jointly offered by two business units. Credit the success of this new financial product to the banker’s informal power. Informal power—which is unrelated to your formal title—can enable you to mobilize resources, drive change, and create value for the organization as well as yourself. And in the modern workplace, informal power is increasingly pivotal and can secure your…

7. How to Bounce Back from Rejection

A MANAGING PARTNER I consult with at a large professional services firm, let’s call him Evan, was recently dealt a painful blow: A high seven-figure proposal he was certain his team landed got awarded to the competition. Evan’s career was a storied rise to stardom. An Ivy League graduate, he was intelligent, personable, and beloved by the firm. Consultants clamored to be on his project teams. He’d had his fair share of setbacks, but by and large, things mostly went his way. When we met on the evening he learned of the decision, I was struck by how devastated he was. Though he’d lost other deals before, he’d clearly attached much deeper meaning to this loss. This wasn’t disappointment—it was grief. In my experience working with especially successful leaders, I’ve seen a…

7. How to Bounce Back from Rejection
AUF AUGENHÖHE MIT DER NATUR

AUF AUGENHÖHE MIT DER NATUR

WIR HABEN FÜR DEN INNENAUSBAU NUR WENIGE MATERIALIEN VERWENDET, HOLZ IST DER HAUPTAKTEUR“Delphine CarrèreDER GARTEN BILDET DEN RAHMEN, NATUR UND ARCHITEKTUR SIND EIN GUTES TEAM“Delphine Carrère DIE FRANZÖSISCHE GEMEINDE ANGLET, nördlich von Biarritz, ist bekannt für ihre elf Surfstrände. Doch nicht der nahe Atlantik lockte die neuen Hauseigner in diese Gegend, sondern der berühmte Chiberta Golf Club, der 1927 vom Duke of Windsor initiiert worden war und dessen Golfplatz direkt am Wasser damals als schönster der Welt galt. Nur einen Steinwurf entfernt weckte im Jahr 2019 ein unscheinbarer Flachbau das Interesse der passionierten Golfer. Das Haus war erst acht Jahre alt, sah aber schon ramponiert aus. Ein kleiner Betonquader stand versetzt auf einem größeren, die weiße Fassade mit sparsamen Fensterausschnitten alterte schlecht und wirkte zwischen den hohen Kiefern und Korkeichen, die…

So verwandelten Loanah und Romain ihr KLEINES HAUS aus den 1930er-Jahren in ein LUFTIGES Familiendomizil voller idyllischer PLÄTZCHEN

»ES WAR DIE BESTE IDEE, DEN LAUBENGANG ZUR KÜCHE ZU MACHEN«ROMAIN FAGET EINFACH MAL NACHGEFRAGT Ein Jahr Renovierung – ganz schön fordernd für eine Familie mit kleinen Kindern. Wie haben Sie das gestemmt, Loanah? Romain meinte: „Sag mir, was du haben willst, und ich bau es dir!“ Ich weiß: Viele Frauen träumen davon, mit so einem DIYEhemann verheiratet zu sein. Allerdings. Wie sind Sie an Ihr Projekt herangegangen? Wir haben erst das ungenutzte Dachgeschoss ausgebaut. Dann sind wir oben eingezogen und haben das Erdgeschoss renoviert. Und das alles in Eigenleistung? Fast. Romains Bruder hat uns geholfen. Und ganz am Ende der Bauphase haben wir fürs Erdgeschoss einen Maler beauftragt – nach einem Jahr Renovierung konnten wir einfach nicht mehr! Haben Sie einen Lieblingsplatz? Ich sitze gern im Alkoven am Fenster und lese ein Buch – oder denke über neue…

So verwandelten Loanah und Romain ihr KLEINES HAUS aus den 1930er-Jahren in ein LUFTIGES Familiendomizil voller idyllischer PLÄTZCHEN

A BRETON BITE

STANDING IN A CIRCLE in a converted boatyard facing the port of St.-Malo, in the northwestern French region of Brittany, our small group of strangers introduces ourselves. It’s late February 2020, a few weeks before the COVID-19 pandemic will lock the country down, and months before what would typically be Brittany’s summer tourist season. We are here for crêpe school, and my classmates are all locals—a few retirees, a mother and daughter, one high school senior—most of whom are cashing in gift certificates they’d received at Christmas. “I’ve lived in St.-Malo for twenty years and I don’t know how to make galettes,” says Béatrice, a pharmacist, using the Breton name for savory crêpes made with buckwheat flour (regular crêpes are made with white flour and are often sweet). “The last time…

A BRETON BITE
Apple Watch Series 8: The Goldilocks Option

Apple Watch Series 8: The Goldilocks Option

The Apple Watch Series 8 looks exactly like its predecessor, but it offers some notable health and safety improvements that weren’t available on last year’s model. Its biggest upgrade is the ability to measure and track changes in your body temperature while you sleep, with a dual-sensor design for more accurate readings. If you have a menstrual cycle, the Series 8 can use your body-temperature data to estimate the date of your last ovulation. And on the safety front, the watch can detect whether you’ve been in a car crash and automatically call for help. With these upgrades, plus an already unrivaled user experience and app selection that’s further enhanced by watchOS 9, the Apple Watch Series 8 is still the best iPhone-compatible smartwatch for most buyers and remains our…

The Optimist

Indie Lee Founder, Indie Lee South Salem, New York “I’ll find a silver lining in anything,” says Indie Lee, and she means anything. In 2008, Lee was diagnosed with a brain tumor and given six months to live. When her doctor told her the cause could be environmental and asked what products she used on her skin, she was floored. “I was so careful about what I was putting into my body; I didn’t think about what I was putting on it,” recalls the former CPA. After successful surgery, Lee consulted experts and set out to make safer skin-care goods: “I started formulating like mad in my kitchen.” Now she produces it all in a lab, and works with COSMOS, a global third-party certification, to vet formulas and stay true to her…

The Optimist

WORTE LASSEN SICH NICHT ZURÜCKHOLEN

AM 10. NOVEMBER 2009 WARF SICH NATIONALTORWART ROBERT ENKE VOR EINEN ZUG UND STARB. Und veränderte damit auch das Leben einer Familie, die den Fußballspieler nur aus dem Fernsehen kannte. Es ist das Leben von Claudia Iseler. Sie wohnt in einer deutschsprachigen Gemeinde in Belgien. Ihre beiden Enkelkinder, damals acht und zehn Jahre alt, erfuhren auf dem Schulhof von Enkes Tod. Von der Oma wollten sie wissen, was Suizid bedeutet. Claudia Iseler suchte nach Worten. Sie erklärte vorsichtig, warum Menschen manchmal nicht mehr leben wollen, und beantwortete alle Fragen der Kinder, die sie liebt und um die sie sich regelmäßig kümmerte. „Du hast ihre heile Welt zerstört“, wird ihr erwachsener Sohn später aufgebracht rufen. Und ankündigen, seine Kinder von nun an vor ihr zu schützen. „Eine Oma wie dich brauchen…

WORTE LASSEN SICH NICHT ZURÜCKHOLEN
„WENN MEINE FRAU SCHMERZEN HAT, HALTE ICH DIE WELT AN, DAMIT ICH IHR ZUHÖREN KANN“

„WENN MEINE FRAU SCHMERZEN HAT, HALTE ICH DIE WELT AN, DAMIT ICH IHR ZUHÖREN KANN“

BRIGITTE WOMAN: Herr und Frau Gottman, Ihr neues Buch ist eine Anleitung für acht tiefe Gespräche, die eine Liebesbeziehung lebendig halten. Reden Paare zu wenig miteinander? JOHN GOTTMAN: Eine meiner Lieblingsstudien dazu wurde an der University of California durchgeführt. Es stellte sich heraus, dass berufstätige Paare mit kleinen Kindern 35 Minuten in der Woche miteinander sprechen. Deckt sich das mit Ihren Erfahrungen als Paarforscher? JULIE SCHWARTZ GOTTMAN: Ja, wir erleben häufig Paare, die emotional so dicht machen, dass sie kaum jemals ihre Gefühle miteinander teilen und nur noch über To-do-Listen reden. Sie verlieren dabei völlig aus den Augen, wo der andere gerade steht im Leben – was ihn bewegt, wer er ist. Das Buch richtet sich auch an Paare, die sich gerade erst kennengelernt haben. (John) Schauen Sie sich TV-Dating-Shows an. Romantische Verabredungen sind oft…

Vom Suchen und Finden der Freundschaft

Vom Suchen und Finden der Freundschaft

„MANCHE FREUNDIN IST WÄHREND IHRER EHE AUS MEINEM LEBEN VERSCHWUNDEN““Gerdi Ruby, 63, Projektmanagerin Vor drei Jahren lernte ich auf einer Geburtstagsfeier Ina, 59, kennen. Wir standen am Buffet und kamen ins Gespräch. Wir merkten schnell, dass wir viel gemeinsam haben: Wir sind beide Singles, haben jede ein erwachsenes Kind – sie einen Sohn, ich eine Tochter. Wir finden Salsatanzen toll, interessieren uns für spirituelle Themen, machen Yoga und Meditation und lieben unsere Gärten. Das alles hat uns sofort verbunden. Wir tauschten Handynummern aus, verabredeten uns irgendwann in Inas Schrebergarten und trafen uns dann immer öfter zum Kaffeetrinken. Unsere Gespräche wurden mit der Zeit persönlicher, und Stück für Stück gab jede mehr von sich preis. Ich habe noch andere liebe, mir wichtige Freundinnen, die ich seit Jahren kenne. Ein paar Freundinnen sind…

DANKE, LÄUFT

DANKE, LÄUFT

ES GIBT VIELE Ähnlichkeiten zwischen den Frauen in meiner Familie, eine davon ist mir erst kürzlich bewusst geworden: dass keine von ihnen jemals das Haus ohne eine Packung Taschentücher verlässt. Lange habe ich das für eine etwas altmodische Gewohnheit gehalten, eine irgendwie rührende Geste der Fürsorge. Ich vergrabe beim Spaziergang selbstvergessen die Hände in die Jackentaschen, wir lassen uns an einem freien Tisch in der Außengastronomie nieder, ich bin gerade etwas zu ausführlich in Gedanken – und schon kramt eine der Anwesenden in ihrer Handtasche und ruft: „Brauchst du ein Taschentuch?“ Aus meinem unauffälligen Atemorgan ist eine launische Feuchtzone geworden Inzwischen bin ich an einem Punkt in meinem Leben angekommen, an dem ich diese Frage klar bejahen kann. Viele Jahre lang war meine Nase ein unauffälliges Atemorgan, jetzt hat sie sich in…

Gesucht: liebevolle Familie

Gesucht: liebevolle Familie

Ich hatte Platz, ein offenes Herz und alles, was so ein Kind brauchte. Ein großes Foto von einem kleinen Jungen mit traurigem, verlorenem Blick, einer Träne im Augenwinkel und einem verlotterten Teddy unterm Arm. Das Bild klebte an einer Litfasssäule, darunter die Aufschrift: „Pflegefamilien gesucht.“ Das Bild berührte mich zutiefst. Ich notierte die angegebene Nummer. Der Aufruf ließ mich nicht los. So fing alles an. Ein fremdes Kind in der Familie? Aus einem sozialen Brennpunkt der Stadt? Die meisten Menschen aus meinem Umfeld zeigten kein Verständnis für meine Idee, ein Pflegekind aufzunehmen. Auch meine Familie hielt die Idee für vollkommen absurd. Fünf Kinder. Alleinerziehend. Zwei Pflegefälle im engeren Familienkreis. Trotz aller Bedenken rief ich bei der Nummer an. Meine Kinder waren damals, wie man so schön sagt, aus dem Gröbsten raus, die Großen…

„Jede und jeder ist eingeladen, die Stadt, in der wir leben, mitzugestalten“

„Jede und jeder ist eingeladen, die Stadt, in der wir leben, mitzugestalten“

BRIGITTE WOMAN: Was machen Sie in Stockholm anders als Ihre Kolleginnen und Kollegen in anderen Hauptstädten? ANNA KÖNIG JERLMYR: Wer hierherzieht, ist vom ersten Tag an Bürgerin oder Bürger dieser Stadt. Egal ob die Menschen aus Syrien oder Uppsala kommen, welchen Status und Hintergrund sie haben, sie sind Stockholmer. Meine Botschaft ist: Wir sind alle gleichberechtigt und gleich bedeutsam. Schweden ist eines der am wenigsten religiösen Länder der Welt, deshalb stellt sich hier schon früh die Frage nach dem Lebenssinn, zu welchem größeren Ziel die Menschen beitragen wollen, was sie einmal hinterlassen. Wir sind ein Ort der Möglichkeiten, an dem sie diese Ziele erreichen können. Sie werben damit, den Stockholmern seien Werte wichtiger als ein hohes Gehalt und Boni. Ist das nicht eine Luxusdebatte? Natürlich ist es schwierig, wenn man keine berufliche Beschäftigung…

Alles auf einen Streich

Massimo ist Kommunist. Einer dieser älteren, lebensfrohen Kommunisten, wie nur Italien sie hervorbringen kann. Gerade sorgt er sich mal wieder um das Wohl der Arbeiterklasse. In Schlappen und Jogginghose kommt er durch das Gras zum Gartentor geschlendert. Er schaut auf mein grün gesprenkeltes Gesicht hinter der Schutzbrille und auf den linken Torflügel, der schon perfekt abgeschliffen zwischen Rosenbüschen und Jasminhecken steht. „Du bist ja schnell“, sagt er leicht beunruhigt und saugt an seiner kurzen Pfeife. „Übernimm dich nicht. Wirklich. Morgen ist auch noch ein Tag.“ Seit neun Uhr arbeite ich an seinem Gartentor. Gleich nach dem Frühstück habe ich die Kabelrolle aus der Werkstatt geholt, die Bohrmaschine eingestöpselt und die Schleifbürste aufgesetzt. Während sich die Morgensonne in den Weinbergen brach und die Po-Ebene aufleuchten ließ wie einen riesigen, zartgoldenen See, nahm…

Alles auf einen Streich
Sea son of Grief

Sea son of Grief

On Jan. 15, Karl-Anthony Towns tested positive for COVID-19. Just nine months after the 25-year-old watched his mother, Jacqueline, die of the same disease that also killed his uncle and five other members of his family, this was a nightmare scenario. Towns received treatment at a Minneapolis-area hospital, then quarantined at home for the next few weeks, isolated from friends and family. Basketball had been the closest thing in his life to an outlet. Now, by himself, he had no choice but to confront the pain that followed his mother’s sudden death. “I’ve had a lot of situations this year where things were just too much for me,” Towns says. “I just remember [quarantining] in the house, and it was more than just COVID for me. I felt like I was going…

The Feel of The Draft

RECEIVERS FAR AND WIDE Last year an unprecedented 13 wideouts went in the first two rounds. That record could end up standing until … April 30. This year’s class is headlined by the fast and physical Ja’Marr Chase of LSU and two Alabama stars: ultra-quick DeVonta Smith, the reigning Heisman winner, and burner Jaylen Waddle, who had more receiving yards than Smith before an ankle injury ended his regular season. The 2021 group is more talented at the top than last year’s—Chase, Smith and Waddle are all top-10 candidates—and potentially just as deep. A SINGULAR TIGHT END, VARIETY OF BACKS As good as the wideouts are, the draft’s most impressive pass catcher might be Florida tight end Kyle Pitts (above), with rare speed and fluid athleticism for a man his size (6' 6",…

The Feel of The Draft
TAKING A STANCE

TAKING A STANCE

Last November, in an otherwise mundane Week 10 meeting of noncontenders, the Chargers and Dolphins offered A GLIMPSE INTO WHAT MIGHT WELL BE FOOTBALL’S FUTURE. Facing third-and-10 late in the second quarter, trailing by seven, L.A.’s rookie quarterback, Justin Herbert, counted off five receivers and surveyed an atypical defensive front from his usual shotgun roost. Of the six Miami defenders milling around the box, none had a hand anchored to the ground. In fact, neither did any of the linemen charged with protecting Herbert. As the play clock ticked down, every player on the field stood, save for one: center Dan Feeney. At the snap, four of the Dolphins up front sprinted forward, intent on whizzing by backpedaling linemen rather than hunkering down and bulldozing through them. Herbert’s protectors parried the charge by…

The Professor & the Innocent Man: A Friendship Forged in Hope

The Professor & the Innocent Man: A Friendship Forged in Hope

For Willie “Timmy” Donald, Feb. 27, 1992, was just an ordinary Thursday. Then 23, he spent a carefree afternoon with his older sister and her fiancé, tagging along as they went car shopping at multiple dealerships in the suburbs around their Gary, Ind., hometown. Meanwhile in Gary, a robbery spree was underway. A man with a gun was attacking six different families in their homes, demanding cash and fatally shooting one of his victims when he tried to resist. The attacks occurred in Donald’s neighborhood, but he didn’t even know they’d happened until five days later, when police appeared at his door. Two witnesses had selected Donald’s photo—erroneously in the system after he was a passenger in a car mistakenly reported stolen—and then identified him as the gunman in a lineup. Though…

ENVIE DE LIRE

Romans français La Définition du bonheur De chaque côté de l’Atlantique vivent Clarisse et Ève. Qui sont ces deux femmes? Clarisse, parisienne, sensuelle, amoureuse de la vie et des hommes. Ève, l’intello française devenue traiteur à New York, aimant la littérature et son mari. Clarisse et ses trois fils. Ève et ses deux filles. Trajectoires parallèles de deux femmes. On les découvre de la fin des années 1970 à nos jours, de l’adolescence à l’âge mûr, de moments clés en moments doux. Deux femmes à la poursuite du bonheur. Cela pourrait paraître vu et revu, sauf que Catherine Cusset ose creuser l’intime, puiser dans les corps et les sentiments, dégaine l’amour, la trahison, la passion, le pardon… Sa plume, sûre d’elle, va droit au coeur et nous cueille comme une fleur. F.…

ENVIE DE LIRE
William & Harry: United in Grief

William & Harry: United in Grief

‘If there were any time they were going to come together, it’s now’—ROYAL INSIDER The day of Prince Philip’s funeral dawned crisp and bright, with hundreds of British service members gathered on the grounds of Windsor Castle by early afternoon to honor the former Royal Navy officer and husband of 73 years to Queen Elizabeth. Philip’s carriage sat nearby, his driving gloves and a small red pot—containing sugar lumps for his beloved Fell ponies—situated poignantly atop the seat. Just before 3 p.m., as a custom Land Rover hearse carried Philip’s flag-draped casket toward St. George’s Chapel, several members of the royal family took their places in a solemn procession behind, including sons Charles, Andrew and Edward and daughter Anne. But all eyes were primarily focused on two of Philip’s grandsons: Prince…

Gossip Girls

Gossip Girls

PENELOPE FEATHERINGTON’S HAIR IS SO BIG BECAUSE IT’S FULL OF secrets: fake courtships. Concealed pregnancies. Financial ruin. Garden trysts. All the Regency tea that audiences can’t get enough of. But today, at EW’s photo shoot at London’s tony Lanesborough hotel, Penelope’s massive auburn wig and its attendant calumnies are nowhere to be found. Instead, Nicola Coughlan, the effervescent actress behind Bridgerton’s secret gossip queen, is a bit bereft sporting a chic, short blond cut. “I feel weird being in costume without ginger hair,” she quips. “I’m not even a natural blonde, either, so it’s just layers and layers of lies.” She may be talking about her coiffure, but the natural brunette could easily be describing Penelope’s alter ego—anonymous scandal-sheet author Lady Whistledown—or even Bridgerton at large. Bursting onto the scene Christmas Day…

StarTracks

StarTracks

JANET’S BIG RETURN Hollywood, Fla., April 14 The opening night of Janet Jackson’s Together Again Tour at the Hard Rock Live proved it doesn’t really matter how long the pop star goes without hitting the road—she always delivers. The show, Jackson’s first since November 2019, encompassed hits from her decades-long career, including “All for You,” “Nasty” and “That’s the Way Love Goes.” Jackson split her 40-song set into five acts jam-packed with her signature choreography as well as costume changes reflecting her many eras. “We had so much fun last night … so good to see all of u!” she wrote on Instagram the next day. DESTINATION: OZ Buckinghamshire, England April 17 Ariana Grande wore full Glinda the Good Witch attire—from crown to gown—in the first photo of her in character on the set of…

Le plan de l’Ukraine face aux Russes

Le plan de l’Ukraine face aux Russes

Les Norvégiens avaient surnommé « dents de Hitler » les blocs de béton semés sur leurs côtes par l’armée nazie lors de l’édification du mur de l’Atlantique à partir de 1942. Celles de Vladimir Poutine ont jailli de terre par centaines de milliers, dans l’est de l’Ukraine, ces derniers mois, le long d’une ligne de front de 950 kilomètres. Cette immense mâchoire, le chef du Kremlin espère la refermer bientôt sur les forces ukrainiennes et éteindre les espoirs de reconquête de toute une nation. Depuis plusieurs semaines, Kiev ne cache plus son intention de lancer une contre-offensive en mesure de chasser l’envahisseur russe. Pour y parvenir, ses soldats vont devoir percer une ligne défensive où leurs adversaires les attendent avec la ferme intention de les anéantir. Une opération des plus périlleuses…

'Rust' Tragedy Aftermath: What's Next for Alec Baldwin?

'Rust' Tragedy Aftermath: What's Next for Alec Baldwin?

‘I WOULD GO TO ANY LENGTHS TO UNDO WHAT HAPPENED’—ALEC BALDWIN More than six weeks after the accidental shooting death of cinematographer Halyna Hutchins on the set of the movie Rust, Alec Baldwin is still reeling. In his emotional first sit-down interview since the Oct. 21 tragedy—in which Hutchins, 42, was killed and director Joel Souza, 48, was injured when a prop gun Baldwin was holding fired during a rehearsal—the actor, 63, who was producing and starring in the western, told ABC News’s George Stephanopoulos he is haunted by the incident and struggling with sleeplessness and exhaustion. “I would go to any lengths to undo what happened,” he said, adding that he chose to speak out on the Dec. 2 newscast because he “felt there were a number of misconceptions” about…

Winter TV Preview

Winter TV Preview

1 Tiffany Channels Her Inner Detective Tiffany Haddish loves a good party. “The best one I’ve ever been to was Jay-Z and Beyoncé’s Gold Party after the 2020 Oscars,” says the comedian, 42. “It was super dope!” Haddish is focused on a different type of gathering in Apple TV+’s comedy The Afterparty—a limited series about a murder mystery set at a high school reunion. “I love the puzzle,” says Haddish, who plays the role of Detective Danner. Each episode of the series will investigate the alibi of a different character—and some will even include dance routines. “Fans can expect to be shocked,” she adds. Dave Franco, Sam Richardson, Ilana Glazer, Ike Barinholtz and more costar with Haddish, and viewers will get the opportunity “to escape” while staying entertained. As she says,…

L’APPEL DU 18 OCTOBRE

L’APPEL DU 18 OCTOBRE

Vous l’aurez probablement noté : pendant le Mondial, comme par enchantement, toute la presse généraliste semblait redécouvrir l’automobile, l’état de son industrie, et les nombreuses questions qui interrogent son avenir. À lui seul, ce phénomène de loupe médiatique pourrait suffire à justifier l’existence de notre Salon national. J’ai bien peur, hélas, que cela ne suffise pas et que la tristesse de cette édition ne le condamne à jamais. Mais ne tirons pas sur l’ambulance et gardons espoir… Donc, subitement, nous avons eu droit sur les radios et télés à une avalanche de débats sur l’électrification de l’automobile, sa pertinence environnementale, son coût, son usage. Dans le même temps, certains de nos confrères généralistes découvraient, un peu surpris, l’abondance de l’offre asiatique. D’où la question qui, régulièrement, faisait surface lors des…

Passages

Babies Glee alum Matthew Morrison, 42, and his wife, interior designer Renee Puente, 36, are expecting their second child. The two also share son Revel James, 3. Morrison revealed the news in a sweet Instagram Story, saying, “Baby loading.” • Lauren Bush Lauren, 36, who is George H.W. Bush’s granddaughter, welcomed her third child, son Robert Rocky, with husband David Lauren, 49, designer Ralph Lauren’s son. The two also share sons James, 5, and Max, 3. “We are so in love and happy that you have come to complete our wolf pack,” she wrote on Instagram. Health YouTube star Jeffree Star, 35, and a friend were hospitalized after a car accident in Wyoming. The car reportedly flipped three times after hitting black ice, leaving Star with a back injury. “My vertebrae, three of…

Passages
5 Myths About Sunscreen

5 Myths About Sunscreen

MYTH #1 The higher the SPF, the longer you can go before reapplying. MYTHBUSTER Whether you use SPF 30 or SPF 100, you need to reapply it at least every two hours. That’s because SPF refers to how much of the sun’s rays the sunscreen filters, not how long it lasts. The reason sunscreen lasts only two hours, says Paul Nghiem, M.D., Ph.D., head of the dermatology division at the University of Washington School of Medicine, is that sun and moisture break down or wash off some of the protective chemicals. Set a phone reminder to reapply it, and use more than you think you should. “On average, people apply only about one-third as much sunscreen as the government assumes when it calculates the SPF,” Dr. Nghiem says. If you skimp, that…

Beats Fit Pro: Solid ANC

Beats Fit Pro: Solid ANC

After releasing the relatively affordable Studio Buds ($149.99) earlier this year, Beats is back with a new pair of noise-cancelling true wireless earphones, the Beats Fit Pro. Aptly named, the focus here is on in-ear fit security, with built-in earfins made of a pliable material that truly helps create a more secure seal in your ear. They’re also armed with active noise cancellation (ANC), and since Beats is owned by Apple, you get the company’s H1 chip, which enables features including Spatial Audio with head tracking, Adaptive EQ, hands-free Siri, and one-touch iOS pairing. The sonic performance is classic Beats, with intense bass, boosted highs, and a scooped-out midrange. The ANC is better than average, with effective low-frequency noise elimination. For the price, there’s plenty to like, but the Beats…

The Skin Awards

Acne Advances That Make a Real Difference If you feel like you’re breaking out more than usual, you’re not wrong. “Acne is worse than ever,” Mona Gohara, M.D., says. The reasons are vast—elevated stress levels, eating habits, face masks, hormonal shifts, and changes in our routines—which is why getting a customized regimen from a dermatologist is key. For example, “If you have hormonal acne, then Winlevi has become one of my go-to solutions,” Karan Lal, D.O., says. “It’s a prescription cream that blocks androgen receptors on oil glands to reduce the sebum production that plays a role in forming acne.” (Read more about it on page 37.) There’s also JORI Acne & Oil Control Primer, a new salicylic acid formula. “The mattifying gel treats acne while absorbing shine and minimizing the…

The Skin Awards

SHOPPING IN ISTANBUL

CONTEMPORARY CLOTHING Turkish fashion labels have been on the rise for a few years. Among the emerging big hitters is Siedrés, which has earned a cult following for its Ganni-meets-Mediterranean aesthetic. Taking inspiration from the people and places along the Aegean coast, Ceylin Türkkan designs poplin tunics, shawls and salwars in summery Seventies florals and hippie silhouettes, which are made in small suburban factories. Set inside the former studio of sculptor Hüseyin Anka Ozkan, the boutique looks onto tulip-filled Emirgan Park. siedres.com REIMAGINED RUGS Ilke Beyaz launched Figure last year to combine Turkey’s woven rug tradition with minimalist style. The kilims are produced by artisans, in many cases reviving the local trade, using centuries-old Anatolian loom techniques and 100 per cent wool. The patterns – Matisse-esque motifs, abstract foliage, crescent moons – are…

SHOPPING IN ISTANBUL
12 Ways to Be More Secure Online

12 Ways to Be More Secure Online

When a big company with lax security suffers a breach that exposes your personal data, passwords, or profile pics, there’s not much you can do about it. That doesn’t mean you’re powerless to protect yourself, though: You can strengthen your security and guard your privacy at home. You don’t want to lose the novel you’re writing to ransomware or let a banking Trojan siphon off all your cash, right? Fortunately, you can mount a local defense against these local problems. Making your devices, online identity, and activities more secure really doesn’t take much effort. In fact, several of our tips about what you can do to be more secure online boil down to little more than common sense. 1. INSTALL AN ANTIVIRUS AND KEEP IT UPDATED We call it antivirus software, but fending…

Learn to Love Networking

Learn to Love Networking

“I HATE NETWORKING.” We hear this all the time from executives, other professionals, and MBA students. They tell us that networking makes them feel uncomfortable and phony—even dirty. Although some people have a natural passion for it—namely, the extroverts who love and thrive on social interaction—many understandably see it as brownnosing, exploitative, and inauthentic. But in today’s world, networking is a necessity. A mountain of research shows that professional networks lead to more job and business opportunities, broader and deeper knowledge, improved capacity to innovate, faster advancement, and greater status and authority. Building and nurturing professional relationships also improves the quality of work and increases job satisfaction. When we studied 165 lawyers at a large North American law firm, for example, we found that their success depended on their ability to network…

1. We’re Losing Touch with Our Networks

1. We’re Losing Touch with Our Networks

OUR RECENT RESEARCH shows that our professional and personal networks have shrunk by close to 16%—or by more than 200 people—during the pandemic. Network shrinkage has some serious downsides. It can make finding a job more difficult, hinder career progress, and make it harder to get promoted. For companies, it can lead to less creativity and more groupthink. People with fewer connections at work have a decreased sense of belonging and are less likely to identify with the organization, which puts them at higher risk for turnover and possibly even fraud and negligence. Under normal circumstances, our networks don’t simply shrink; they’re more likely to churn. Rather than slowly losing friends over time as we move, change jobs, or have kids, we usually forge new relationships to replace the ones we’ve…

A Smarter Way to Network

ONE OF THE HAPPIEST, most successful executives we know is a woman named Deb. She works at a major technology company and runs a global business unit that has more than 7,000 employees. When you ask her how she rose to the top and why she enjoys her job, her answer is simple: people. She points to her boss, the CEO, a mentor who “always has her back”; Steve, the head of a complementary business, with whom she has monthly brainstorming lunches and occasional gripe sessions; and Tom, a protégé to whom she has delegated responsibility for a large portion of her division. Outside the company, Deb’s circle includes her counterparts in three strategic partnerships, who inspire her with new ideas; Sheila, a former colleague, now in a different industry,…

A Smarter Way to Network
Increase Your Return on Failure

Increase Your Return on Failure

ONE OF THE most important—and most deeply entrenched—reasons why established companies struggle to grow is fear of failure. Indeed, in a 2015 Boston Consulting Group survey, 31% of respondents identified a risk-averse culture as a key obstacle to innovation. Senior executives are highly aware of this problem. On one hand, they recognize the usefulness of failure. As 3M’s legendary chairman William McKnight once said, “The best and hardest work is done in the spirit of adventure and challenge…Mistakes will be made.” Pixar’s president, Ed Catmull, has a similar point of view. “Mistakes aren’t a necessary evil,” he has said. “They aren’t evil at all. They are an inevitable consequence of doing something new.…and should be seen as valuable.” On the other hand, management processes for budgeting, resource allocation, and risk control are built…

Tech Disinformation: 16 Myths Debunked

Tech Disinformation: 16 Myths Debunked

Heard the one about how charging your phone overnight destroys its battery? How about this whopper: Macs can’t get viruses? There’s plenty of fake tech news floating around; each new generation of technology products and services begets even more false beliefs. A lot of those are pretty easy to discredit, but we found a few for this story that might make even our readers do a double-take! It’s possible you’re worried about something that isn’t true—or maybe something that used to be true but isn’t now, as new discoveries and updates cleared up the problem. Go through our list below and see if there’s something you thought was true but, well, isn’t. Then pass on the real deal to your friends, family, and social following, so they won’t fall prey to tech…

GANZ SCHÖN SCHRÄG

»ICH MAG ES, WENN JEDES DING SEINEN BESTIMMTEN PLATZ HAT«LAURA ROKAMA Besonders lang war Laura Rokamas Einrichtungs-Wunschliste nicht: ein kleiner Beistelltisch mit schwerem Travertinfuß und die glamouröse Messingleuchte in Muschelform des finnischen Designers Paavo Tynell standen darauf. Viel länger hätte sie aber auch nicht sein dürfen, denn das Apartment im Dachgeschoss eines Jugendstilhauses im Zentrum von Turku, das die 26-jährige Versicherungskauffrau vor eineinhalb Jahren bezog, bietet nur 53 Quadratmeter Wohnfläche. „Kein Problem“, meint sie. „Ich mag es, wenn jedes Ding seinen bestimmten Platz und Zweck hat.“ Darüber hinaus brauche sie nicht viel. Diese Einstellung hat den Räumen gutgetan, denn zusätzlich zur begrenzten Fläche verlangen auch die vielen Schrägen, die die Wohnung zwar charmant, dafür aber nicht leicht einzurichten machen, gewisse Einschränkungen. So war von Anfang an klar, dass der einzige Teil der…

GANZ SCHÖN SCHRÄG
15 Years Ago, the iPhone Created ‘Big Tech’

15 Years Ago, the iPhone Created ‘Big Tech’

Fifteen years ago, on January 9, 2007, I sat on the floor of a Las Vegas Convention Center entryway and pondered the iPhone. While I was running around the Consumer Electronics Show looking at the latest LG Chocolate, Steve Jobs was over at Macworld changing the world. I’d been covering smartphones for three years by then, and they were complex gadgets for road warriors. With the iPhone, Apple simplified the smartphone and made it a must-have for everyone. This wasn’t solely about Steve Jobs’ brilliance. He struck when several other technologies were becoming available—3G for the mobile web and capacitive touch screens for finger-friendly interfaces. And he worked without the legacy-software hangovers that Microsoft, Nokia, and Palm all struggled through from the first generation of proto-smartphones. The iPhone has made a huge number…

SWELL WITH PRIDE

SWELL WITH PRIDE

WHEN I DECIDED to learn to surf, five years ago, I did not venture to Malibu, Maui, or any of those fabled breaks where coconut-lotion-scented breezes ripple through palm trees and shirtless specimens with streaked hair play out their endless summers. Instead, I headed to the Rockaways, and I did so in the winter. One December day, I found myself at one of New York City’s few designated surf spots, the south end of Beach 69th Street. I was accompanied by stalwart herring gulls, a guy sweeping a metal detector across the sand, and Dillon O’Toole, my surfing instructor. The sky was Berlin Wall gray and filled with the sounds of JFK-bound jets winding down their engines. The water—which I found myself in quite frequently after being tossed off my surfboard—was…

New Cars You Can Count On

New Cars You Can Count On

SHOPPING FOR A new car tends to be an anxiety-ridden process. It’s one of the largest single purchases many people make, and no one wants to waste money—or time—on a model that will be a regular at the repair shop. Fortunately, CR can guide you to the most reliable new cars, including sedans, SUVs, and pickup trucks. Our recommendations are based on our Auto Reliability Survey, which asked members about issues they’ve had with their vehicles in any of 17 potential problem areas during the previous 12 months. We’re talking everything from engine, transmission, and brakes to electrical systems, noises, leaks, paint, and trim. We use their responses on more than 300,000 vehicles to calculate predicted reliability ratings for almost every new auto on the market. Highlights of this year’s survey include…

The Icon

The Icon

Misty Copeland Principal ballerina, New York City Misty Copeland was 13, living in a San Pedro, California, motel with her mom and siblings, when she took her first ballet class at a Boys & Girls Club. It was an unassuming entry into an elite world (“the class was on a basketball court,” she recalls), but no matter: Her innate talent was unmistakable. Today, Copeland is one of the most acclaimed ballerinas in the world, with the distinction of being the first Black female principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre. She’s a rarity in her field for a wealth of other reasons, too. The star, who regularly sells out audiences for Swan Lake and Firebird, is the author of seven books and cofounder of Life in Motion Productions, a company dedicated to improving…

WENN DER KÖRPER AMOK LÄUFT

WENN DER KÖRPER AMOK LÄUFT

Dass Covid-19 nicht nur die Lunge betrifft, sondern den ganzen Körper, zeichnete sich schon früh ab in der Pandemie. Darum wird der Virusinfekt auch als Systemkrankheit bezeichnet. Doch nach und nach zeigt sich: Die Systemkrankheit, um die es bei schweren Covid-19-Verläufen sehr oft geht, kennt man schon viel länger als das SARS-CoV2-Virus – als Sepsis, im Volksmund bekannt als Blutvergiftung. Diese ist gefährlicher als ein Herzinfarkt, wird aber oft zu spät erkannt. „Es gibt zu viele Todesfälle, die vermeidbar wären“, sagt Dr. Ruth Hecker, Vorsitzende des Aktionbündnisses Patientensicherheit. „Häufig beginnt eine Sepsis im privaten Umfeld.“ Und zwar infolge einer Infektion irgendwo im Körper, die vielleicht erst mal gar nicht so schwerwiegend erscheint. „Könnte es Sepsis sein?“, ist darum eine Frage, die wir alle viel häufiger stellen sollten, so Ruth Hecker.…

MEIN PLAN B

ICH ERINNERE MICH AN EINE ZEIT, IN DER MAN IN TEXTNACHRICHTEN „KP“ SCHRIEB, ALS SEI ES EIN VOLLSTÄNDIGER SATZ: KEIN PLAN. Ich hatte nie einen. Meine Weltanschauung war immer: Alles geschieht aus einem Grund, läuft nach dem karmischen Gesetz von Ursache und Wirkung. Hey, wir leben doch im Jetzt. Demain n’existe pas. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. John-Lennon-Zitate und Sätze, die man runterbetet, um sich dem Leben furchtloser hinzugeben. Um Widerstand auf- und Führung abzugeben. Abzugeben an eine Kraft, die größer ist als wir, die wir tagein, tagaus so emsig damit beschäftigt sind, unser Leben zu kontrollieren. Eine Therapeutin legte mir mal nach meinem Ehe-Aus sehr eindringlich nahe, immer zu wissen, wo Aldi ist. Ich solle mich nicht darauf verlassen, dass mein Exmann…

MEIN PLAN B
MAGAZIN

MAGAZIN

RAUCHFREI E WIE ENTWÖHNEN WER MIT PFLASTERN ODER KAUGUMMIS SCHEITERTE, DAS RAUCHEN AUFZUGEBEN, KANN ES MIT E-ZIGARETTEN VERSUCHEN: EINE STUDIE DER QUEENMARY-UNIVERSIÄT IN LONDON ZEIGT: DIE CHANCEN, TABAKFREI ZU BLEIBEN, SIND BEI EINER ENTWÖHNUNG MIT E-ZIGARETTE SECHSMAL SO HOCH WIE MIT NIKOTINERSATZPRODUKTEN WIE PFLASTERN & CO. 72 PROZENT DER BERUFSTÄTIGEN WOLLEN NACH IHRER RÜCKKEHR AN DEN ARBEITSPLATZ AUS DEM PANDEMIEBEDINGTEN HOMEOFFICE AUF HÄNDESCHÜTTELN ZUR BEGRÜSSUNG VERZICHTEN. Quelle: Premier Inn DEPRESSIONEN TIEF EINATMEN, BITTE Lachgas, wie es beim Zahnarzt zur Narkose zum Einsatz kommt, könnte künftig eine Option für alle sein, bei denen Antidepressiva nicht genug bringen: In einer Studie des Mediziners Peter Nagele von der Universität Chicago erhielten 24 Patient*innen mit therapieresistenter schwerer Depression alle vier Wochen insgesamt drei einstündige Inhalationssitzungen mit einem Placebo oder mit Stickstoffmonoxid, besser bekannt als Lachgas. Ergebnis: Die Lachgas-Patient*innen zeigten im Schnitt deutlich…

MÄRZ

SETZ DICH, LIEBE! Vorschlag für stilsichere Liebeserklärungen: der „Heart Chair“ von Kevin Weiß. Der Möbelbauer räumt derzeit diverse Preise ab. Ca. 640 Euro, studiokevinweiss.de BEAUTY DRAMA, BABY! Ein brüllender Löwe auf pastellrosa Grund, von Blumen umrankt – das kann nur Gucci: Cushion Foundation mit LSF 22 und Instant-Filmstar-Glow. Für alle Hauttypen geeignet, perfekt für unterwegs. 65 Euro THE SIMPLE LIFE RAUS AUS DER STADT, REIN IN DIE NATUR, ABER BITTE NICHT WEIT WEG. DAS IST DIE IDEE DES START-UPS „RAUS“ Klare Luft, weiter Horizont, morgens Kaffee bei Vogelgezwitscher ... So ähnlich träumen Großstädter vom Landleben. Wer dem urbanen Alltag mal kurz den Stecker ziehen möchte, dem bietet das Start-up Raus kleine, schicke, nachhaltige Cabins im Umkreis Berlins. Weitere Stadtfluchten folgen. Ab 160 Euro pro Nacht, bei Bedarf mit Essens- und Weinpaket. Einziger Nachteil: Das WLAN ist leider…

MÄRZ

WIR SIND EIN TEAM

„Wir schaffen uns viele neue Momente„Ivon Blazevic, 47, und Mira Blazevic, 72, aus Zürich haben ein Bademoden-Label gegründet „Bist du verrückt?“ Als ich meine Mutter vor drei Jahren fragte, ob sie mit mir ein eigenes Label für Bademoden aufbauen will, war sie gar nicht begeistert. Ich hatte damals eine Sinnkrise, hatte meine gut bezahlte Stelle als Marketingchefin im Beauty-Business aufgegeben und wollte mich neu erfinden. Meine Mutter war damals gerade in Rente gegangen. Sie hatte 40 Jahre lang für zwei Bademoden-Firmen gearbeitet und dabei alle Prozesse vom Design über die Schnittherstellung bis zum Nähen gelernt. Sie wusste, wie hart und reich an Risiken die Textilbranche ist. Aber mit ihr zusammen wollte ich es wagen. Schon als Teenager hatte ich mit meiner Mutter Bikinis und Kleider entworfen, für mich und meine Freundinnen.…

WIR SIND EIN TEAM

„SÜSSE WELPEN, GEIMPFT, AUS LIEBEVOLLER HOBBYZUCHT ...“

Zum Beispiel neulich, die 16 Französischen Bulldoggen-Welpen in einer Kölner Wohnung. Für 1200 Euro pro Hund waren sie auf einer Onlineplattform angeboten wurden – 800 Euro, wenn man gleich zwei mitnimmt. Einige der kleinen Hunde waren zum geplanten Verkaufszeitpunkt gerade einmal sechs Wochen alt. „ WELPEN BRAUCHEN DIE NÄHE UND DIE MILCH DER MUTTER Seit 13 Jahren arbeitet Birgitt Thiesmann gegen den illegalen Welpenhandel. Häufig lässt sie sich bei Einsätzen von TV-Teams begleiten, um dem Thema Öffentlichkeit zu geben und das Tierleid zu dokumentieren. Sie ist Single und hat keine Kinder, ihr Hund Rudi ist, natürlich, aus dem Tierschutz „DIE WELPEN WAREN IN EINEM ERBÄRMLICHEN ZUSTAND, sie bekamen kein geeignetes Futter, hatten aufgeblähte Bäuche und tränende Augen“, sagt Birgitt Thiesmann. „Wahrscheinlich wurden sie schon mit drei oder vier Wochen in einen Transporter…

„SÜSSE WELPEN, GEIMPFT, AUS LIEBEVOLLER HOBBYZUCHT ...“

BALANCING ACT

TWO LATIN WORDS, medius (“middle”) and ocris (“mountain”), joined hands in the 16th century to make a new word—mediocre—that described anything of middling stature: neither peak nor valley, neither tall nor short, neither Manute Bol nor Muggsy Bogues. Most of us reside there, between Mount Everest and the Marianas Trench, in the safer elevations of mediocrity. Sports are meant to be deliverance from all that, with their built-in extremes, their binary heroes and GOATs, the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat. Win or lose, you will feel something, unless of course you draw. But a tie is a small sample size, of little statistical meaning. For sustained mediocrity, achieved over an entire year, there is only the sister-kissing marathon of the .500 season. “Nobody wants a .500 record,” Browns wide…

BALANCING ACT